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Groomsmen Lighters
He will pull it out for years and think of the day. Personalized groomsmen lighters, engraved with his name or role.
A lighter is one of the few groomsman gifts that gets carried rather than displayed. It also splits into two very different objects depending on what he lights, so the choice matters more here than the price does. Everything below is engraved free, runs from $24.99 to $74.99, and most of it ships in 1 to 2 business days.
Free personalization on every gift
Engraved in-house in Connecticut
Ships in 1 to 2 business days
Not sure where to start?
If he smokes cigars, take a torch. The Engraved Torch Lighter puts out a wind resistant blue flame that lights an even foot, which a soft flame cannot do without scorching the wrapper.
If he does not, a classic flip lighter is the better gift because it gets pocketed every day. The Classic Groomsmen Zippo Lighter and the Personalized Windproof Lighter are the two we engrave most often.
More Groomsmen Gifts That Get Used
The rest of the things a groomsman actually carries.
Torch or Flip? How to Choose a Groomsmen Lighter
Almost every disappointing lighter gift comes from buying the wrong type. There are only two, and one question separates them.
Torch lighters are for cigars, and only for cigars. A single or triple jet burns hot and straight, so it lights the whole foot evenly and does not blow out on a golf course or a patio. That is exactly why it is wrong for a cigarette or a candle. The Triple Threat Cigar Lighter, the Golden Boy and the Armored Torch Lighter are the three shapes we carry.
Flip lighters are for carrying, and for the engraving. The reason a flip lighter works as a wedding gift has little to do with fire. It is a metal object with his name on it that goes in a pocket every day for years. The Classic Groomsmen Zippo Lighter and the Flip Lighter are built for that job.
If he already owns one, buy the thing it pairs with. Most cigar smokers have a lighter and are still borrowing a cutter. The V-Cut Lighter and the All-In One Smokers Lighter combine both in one body, which solves the problem rather than duplicating it.
Why lighters outlast most groomsmen gifts
A glass stays in a cupboard and a tie is worn once. A lighter goes in a pocket, gets handed to someone else at a bar, and comes back. That circulation is the whole point. Years later it is the object in the group most likely to still be in daily use, and the only one where his name has quietly been read by a few hundred strangers.
How Much Should You Spend on a Groomsmen Lighter?
This is a narrow category on price, so the decision is almost entirely about type rather than budget.
$24 to $30
A full party, or a gift to sit inside a box
Classic flip lighters and single torches. The Personalized Windproof Lighter, the Classic Groomsmen Zippo Lighter, the Flip Lighter and the Armored Torch Lighter.
$30 to $50
The main gift for a cigar smoker
Multi jet torches and combination tools. The Triple Threat Cigar Lighter, the Engraved Torch Lighter, the Golden Boy and the V-Cut Lighter.
$50 and up
The best man, or a cigar smoker who has everything
The all in one bodies. The All-In One Smokers Lighter carries the flame, the cut and the punch together, which is the only version worth owning if he travels with cigars.
Who Are You Shopping For?
A cigar smoker in the wedding party. Torch, every time, and pair it with something to cut with. Our Cigar Groomsmen Gifts range covers the cases, cutters and holders that go around it.
A groomsman who does not smoke at all. A flip lighter still works, because the gift is the engraved metal rather than the flame. If that feels like a stretch, a flask does the same job of being carried and handed round.
The whole party, on a set budget. Order the same lighter for each man and change only the engraving. The $24 to $30 band is built for that, and Koozies or Bar Gifts fill out a box without pushing the per man cost up.
Your best man, who should get something different. Move him to the all in one or the gold torch so his gift is visibly not the same as everyone else's. Best Man Gifts has the wider range if a lighter is not quite enough on its own.
Engraving is free on every lighter here, and most orders ship in 1 to 2 business days.
The butane torches ship empty because shipping rules require it, so pick up a can of fuel before the rehearsal dinner.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long does delivery take?
Most orders ship out of our Connecticut office within 1 to 3 business days. From there, delivery time depends on where you're located.
Customers closer to the Northeast typically receive their orders faster, while those further away can expect a few extra days in transit.
What is your return policy?
We want you to love your purchase. If something isn't right, reach out to us within 30 days of your order and we'll do everything we can to make it right.
Because personalized items are made specifically for you, we're unable to accept returns or exchanges on customized orders. However, if we make an error on your personalization, we will replace the item at no cost to you, no questions asked.
For non-personalized items, we're happy to accept returns within 30 days as long as the item is unused and in its original packaging.
Let customers speak for us
vicki FOWLKES
Cleat Bag - Amazing!
I ordered these and paid for expedite shipping. I ordered 6 of them and they all came in within 4 days and look sooooooo good! Great quality and timely order, what else could you ask for! I was scared of the timing on these being ordered and receiving them, but I had nothing to worry about.
Cleat Carry
Arthur Wilson
Very impressed
I ordered 6 build your own groomsman boxes and once I got them and was able to look them over I am impressed. They are bigger than I expected but great quality. I would definitely recommend to any one that need to get gifts for your groosman.
Build Your Own Groomsmen Box
Jonathan McGuire
Monogrammed travel bags!
I had to order some unique gifts and all I could find were cigar and alcohol related items! But GroovyGroomsman had these totally 100% quality - monogrammed and sturdy as all get out. This is a bag you can be proud of! Small enough to fit on your seat and still hold what you need for the weekend! But with confidence and pride!
Heavy Duty Duffel
Evan Adelman
Well made
Got these for my brother’s bachelor party for all the guys. They are very well made. My only thing I would say is that they are thick for golf ball markers. I would consider cutting them down about half the height of what they are. We are all big golfers and they would interfere on the greens if you use them. Just my honest opinion. But they came out great and shipping was quick! Thank you for making them!
Copperlinks Custom Golf Ball Marker
Gregory Chambers
The quality of the product is as described. The customer service is fantastic.
Twist and Shoot Personalized Flask
T. Carlton
Loved by everyone!
My husband got this for his groomsmen a few years ago but was silly and didn't get himself one. His friends all loved it and would bring it on group trips and talked about how it's their go to bag. I finally ordered him one so he could enjoy it too!! The bag holds up well and carries lots of stuff! Many of the guys pack for themselves and their wives in just that bag.
Muscle Duffle
Victor Flores
Awesome Groomsmen Gifts
I gave these to my groomsmen and they loved it. Most said they will display in their offices as a good conversation piece!
Splendid Splinter Personalized Baseball Bat
Conlan Danieu
Great price, even better quality
And they got here within 3 days when I ordered 5 days before my wedding. So happy with these!
Elite Pour - Set of 5 Groomsmen Decanter Gifts
Matt Guza
Durable duffel
I was impressed with the delivery time, considering my order included 7 uniquely monogrammed duffel bags. Great looking product, seems quite durable and useful - served as a great groomsman gift after I had been searching for something other than stereotypical cigar containers and flasks. I consider myself a very satisfied customer!
Muscle Duffle
Carlos Gonzalez
Great service
Only problem was the bags had a strong musty/mildew odor. I had to place the bags outside for a several hours and add dryer sheets to the inside. Very disappointed in the odor. But the service, the box's and everything else was top notch!
The Gentlemen's Duffle
Ryan Bleull
Fantastic Groomsmen Proposal Box
I have seven groomsmen in my wedding next November and every single person LOVED this box! It made it so easy doing something thoughtful and easy to order when everyone is spread out. 10/10 would recommend!
Golfer's Dream Accessories Gift Box
Brenda Paupst
Great Duffel
This is a great canvas, Duffel. Very sturdy material and cleverly designed. It looks great...down to business looking.
Heavy Duty Duffel
Jake Buhring
The pictures don't do it enough justice
When I opened the package after receiving these, I was surprised how well crafted they were. The engraving was very nice, a lot of attention to detail. The shipping was fast and easy no problems with the item at all.
Aged To Perfection Decanter
Kurt Giuliani
Last minute purchase - made my day!
We purchased these socks for myself, my groomsmen and my father as a last minute decision. The delivery was super fast and made it just in time! The socks were pretty comfortable for all day wearing and my wedding party now have a great memento of the day!
Wedding Party Socks
Jonathon Basham
Best investment ever!!
From The most amazing customer service, to picking out the best gift, to delivery, I very much was very pleased and so was my best man.
No regrets what so ever.
Pal Capone Groomsmen Gift Set
